I must admit after Deb decided to come out to Portland for Viv and Vaughn's birthday's, I've been thinking about what to do. A friend said most kids birthdays goes like this: 1. kids arrive, run to play on the play set 2. I yell "cake!" and they all come back 3. silence...eating 4. they finish, run to play on the play set 5. I yell "presents!" and they all come back 6. they finish, run to play on the play set 7. I yell "time to go!" OK, but what if they aren't walking yet let alone running?